Let’s Talk About Porn and Masturbation

Pornography/Masturbation.
[1]Pornography; Used to be called ‘Blue films’ if you are over 30 you might have used that word.An act of men and women having sex and recorded to be viewed by those who wish to.Most people have come in contact with hardcore pornography or at least in part via movies.
[2]Masturbation; An act of one deriving sexual pleasure by fondling their own bodies,Men and women do this and it is believed that it is more common than many admit.
Before i got married[Which is a little over a decade now]A friend of mine who was about to be married to a Pastor at the time told me that watching pornography is a sin when you watch alone and lust,But when you watch with your wife/husband,It is not SIN because you two will use it to spice up your sex life.Incredible! How wonderful that sounds to me then until a bit of common sense was added and the whole thing sounds stupid.
Christians believe that Fornication/adultery is sins which leads people to Hell,We know that those having sex in porn are not married to each other,So they are either committing fornication or adultery[In case one is married]So adulterers and fornicators will go to Hell according to the bible but Christians watching adulterers and fornicators and deriving sexual pleasure in doing so will be eating bread and wine with father Abraham in Paradise,The Pharisees will be proud of modern day church people.
You can’t be neither here nor there,If those porn stars are committing sin against God,You the viewer is no different,Whether you are married or single is irrelevant.

Pornography gives you false expectation,Ridiculous and stupid ideas that SEX originally created by God to be enjoyed is nothing more than a game,A dangerous game which makes sex look more like war,Survival of the fittest where one has to prove a point.Should you go into any relationship with the pornographic views of sex,You are doomed to fail,You will be frustrated out of that relationship because what you watch are men and women often high on dangerous drugs performing acts that are beyond the ordinary.That’s why many relationships are suffering because either one has been possessed with pornography and the other is not keeping up to speed.Satan tells you is just fun but you are helping in building a dangerous market which ends up ruining people’s lives when they get addicted to porn.
[2]Masturbation; A certain pastor found himself in a bit of a tangle when he said something about Masturbation, those are his words; ‘Masturbation is not SIN but a mere habit,Like playing football’ How sweet that sounds until you know how many people that have been destroyed by masturbation.Men,Women addicted to masturbation will have no proper sex life.Some have been using masturbation as an alternative to real sex,As a woman,You won’t get pregnant if you masturbate from now till you die,But have you ever thought of the effects later when you get married and your sex life plummets? You can satisfy yourself now in your room,But tomorrow when you get into a relationship,You will struggle to switch off from that self inflicted burden of masturbation to switch on to real sex life with your partner.

The fact is; Watching pornography,Masturbating and deriving sexual pleasure alone seems harmless,Seems discreet,Offers an easy way and quick sex without anyone involved,It appears to be such a nice way to unwind and pleasure yourself without all the risks of having someone else there and all the hassle,But the long-term effect will be devastating.The moment porn and masturbation becomes part of your life,It offers you the dangerous alternative to real man-woman relationship,It offers you a quick way to get away and enjoy yourself and not to touch your partner,It steals your energy which should have been used in your sex life with your partner,Again,It enslaves you and offers you false hope and ridiculous expectation from your partner forgetting the fact that those on Porn films are mostly on drugs and strong demonic control.
You don’t need porn to spice up your sex life,There are books written by godly men/women which will guide you in that regard,You don’t need masturbation and spending hours fondling yourself as an alternative to real sex,Spend more time and be in a relationship and develop real sex life away from the ridiculous use your fingers in your own body.
God made sex so good for us to enjoy it,Let nothing ruin it for you.

Copied from: Chris Nwabueze Ndu’s wall

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2 Responses to Let’s Talk About Porn and Masturbation

  1. DANIEL CHIJIOKE says:

    Thank you… For sharing this truth.

  2. DANIEL CHIJIOKE says:

    Buh…… Ways out of this masturbation & porn…”cage” Should be highlighted.

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